Wow! This book is a whole eye opener into men that can be married or have a girlfriend while still having sexual encounters in secret with men. They are not gay because they still love sexual relationships with women. They are bisexual under cover because they can’t expose their interest of sexual relationships with the same sex male because they will lose everything in their reputation, family, respect and life. While this book focused solely on the Black community, you can find it in every race communities. Also while this was about men sleeping with men solely, you can find it with women sleeping with women too. This book particularly was a wake up call written for black women specifically as the spread of HIV/ AIDS is more rampant in the USA. It’s to give us a warning as to what could contribute to the spread as there are some DL ( down low) brothers who are having unprotected sex with other male who are strangers.